Can a Christian Support Abortion?

Abortion usually is one of those issues all Christians agree on. Since Obama’s healthcare plan contains loopholes for abortion (after he promised it wouldn’t), someone on Twitter contacted us with a reply we immediately found strange (you’ll soon see why):

@darrinyeager Interesting. Do you have any other sources, though? I don’t believe lifenews. http://twitter.com/KushielsMoon/status/18544169373

It’s one thing to state you need to further research a source (which is good), or they can be biased, or you want to find the other side to an argument. But denying facts because you don’t like where they came from? That’s the flip side (corollary) to the argument from authority fallacy; instead of accepting an argument because it comes from an authority (“trust me, I’m a doctor”), you reject it because you don’t like where it came from.

Because of this fact-denial-without-checking further research into this “pro-choice” Christian became interesting. First off, her view on the abortion-is-murder argument.

Abortion is clearly not murder, and it never has been murder. http://prochoicechristian1.blogspot.com/2009/11/we-think-same.html

The first part remains under current debate, while the second isn’t — abortion isn’t murder, at least in the legal sense after Row v Wade. Prior to Roe v Wade abortion was illegal, and the logical legal charge would be (drum-roll please) … murder (malice, intent, premeditated, and deliberated). Not off to a good start, Ms. pro-choice.

Of course, as President Clinton made famous, “it depends on what your definition of murder is”. If you mean legal definition, Roe v Wade made terminating babies legal; allowing for some terminations, while prosecuting others as murder leads to bizarre legal wrangling, as Texas’ supreme court displayed.

Texas law allows the killing of a fetus to be prosecuted as murder, regardless of the stage of development, but the laws do not apply to abortions, the states’ highest criminal court has ruled … The Texas court said abortion precedent was based on the premise that a woman wants the procedure. http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/23/us/23texas.html

The court ruled killing a baby is murder, except (because of Roe v Wade) in abortion cases, because the woman wants to terminate (with extreme prejudice) the baby, and that’s what Roe v Wade legalized an exception for — the premeditated termination of babies (aka first degree murder). In this strange legal arena, if a woman drives to an abortion clinic, but gets involved in an accident on the way there, the other driver can be prosecuted for murder. But in the absence of a vehicular accident, a few minutes later when then “doctor” injects saltwater or sucks out the baby’s brain, that is totally allowable because she wants to eliminate the baby.

Answering two questions reveals much about theology and her strange interpretations of the Bible to arrive at the position. First, a famous passage in Jeremiah, and second, how did she become a Christian?

Q: The sanctity of life doesn’t depend on your religion. Think about it. When is a person a person? Abortion does kill a human, and these pictures aren’t fake. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you…”- Jeremiah 1:5.

A: It doesn’t matter if the fetus is a person or a zebra - no one and nothing can use a woman’s body against her will. As for your bible verse, it’s completely irrelevant. Unless your name is Jeremiah and you lived centuries ago. http://www.formspring.me/KushielsMoon/q/706821752

Au contraire, mon ami (in other words, wrong again).

The verse maintains relevance as it lays out a principle — God knew you before you were born. Man exists as a three-fold creation, body, soul, and spirit. The body forms at conception and exists until death; the spirit remains eternally.

Naturally, this gets back to her previous opinion abortion isn’t murder. She has to deny Bible verses she doesn’t like to fit her world view — that of being anti-life. But a strange definition of murder also fits into the problem.

… the humanity (or personhood) of the fetus is really irrelevant. Even if we said the fetus was a person, it still wouldn’t be murder for a woman to have an abortion. http://prochoicechristian1.blogspot.com/2010/04/god-has-plan-for-all-fetuses.html?showComment=1274129103314#c4760886957394606568

We’ve not run into anyone holding this view (premeditated killing of an innocent isn’t murder) — it’s why pro-abortion people so desperately argue the baby isn’t really a person, or it’s just a mass of tissue (like a tumor). If it’s not a person it can be discarded as you wish.

Finally, we arrive at perhaps the reason for the strange opinions:

Q: How & when did you become a Christian?

A: My parents raised me Christian, so I’ve been Christian since I was baptized as an infant. As a teenager I choose to stay in the church I was raised in. http://www.formspring.me/KushielsMoon/q/292761122

Whoops — wrong again. Based on the Jeremiah passage and this comment, rather bizarre unorthodox theological views have been presented. Infant baptism does not save you. Paul spends most of his letters hammering the point salvation comes by faith in Jesus Christ alone, so the so-called pro-choice Christian theology begins on an incorrect foundation.

But it’s not just regular theology presenting a problem; love as well lacks understanding:

you said: “are women killing their fetuses because they love them?”

My answer: Yes. http://prochoicechristian1.blogspot.com/2010/04/god-has-plan-for-all-fetuses.html?showComment=1272597516317#c8236734152066306733

In case those views weren’t clear, we get an explanation (although perhaps a review of 1 Corinthians 13 is in order).

“Tell me. Is this the kind of love that causes a mother to kill her fetus?”

Yes.

“Is injecting chemicals into a fetus’ heart to stop its beating before instruments are introduced to dismember it kindness?”

Yes.

“Seeking the good of that fetus? Killing it is a selfless act?”

Yes. Yes. http://prochoicechristian1.blogspot.com/2010/04/god-has-plan-for-all-fetuses.html?showComment=1272659317306#c5982133330269071768

NOTE TO COMMENTERS: You might want to read our comment policy before replying. In short, keep it polite. Disagreement is fine (even if you’re wrong), but incivility or personal attacks aren’t. Abortion remains (and always will be) a hot-button topic; if you can’t discuss politely, don’t bother at all.

We’ve talked to many pro-abortion people, and read lots of arguments on both sides, but honestly never found someone claiming premeditated extermination of an innocent person isn’t murder, and a mother expresses love for her child by aborting it. Do these strange views now pass as mainstream in the pro-abortion camp? If so, what’s next, eugenics? Euthanasia? Would any sanctity of life remain if killing a baby (recognized as a human person) for any reason could be considered an application of love?

Many would say a Christian can’t be anti-life and support terminating babies; this person justifies it using some strange unorthodox (and incorrect) theology. Do better reasons exist in the pro-abortion camp? We’d like to hear them.

What do you think? Do other “Christian” abortion supporters express similar views? How many people believe killing a baby expresses love? If killing a baby isn’t murder as this “pro-choice Christian” claims, up to what age can the baby be terminated without it being murder? Six months? A year? Eighteen (sort of a retro-active abortion)?

The pro-life verses pro-abortion argument comes down to a simple question: when does a baby deserve legal protection from someone desiring to kill it?


Comments

Amen

Amen. Never stop publicizing your stand. Many believe themselves to be smart and write-off any “religious” Christian point of view as emotional, brainwashed spiritualism. But a great truth about God and His Word is that He is all-logical as much as He is all-loving and perfect in Spirit. Any that believe in Christ will do so through the movement of the Holy Spirit, which is beyond our feeble human brains, but I love that along the way, it becomes easy to see that all logic and intellect is also on our side.

I appreciate your post and will share it with others. Thank you and praise the Lord!

To start off, lovely that

To start off, lovely that you’ve written a whole post about me. To answer your title: Yes, you can be prochoice and Christian. Many Christians are.

I said that I do believe lifenews. I do not remember saying that I do not like them (though, truthfully, I don’t). This biased website is full of wrong information. I was looking for a more legitimate source.

As for abortion being murder… you cannot just make assumptions. In the US history, when abortion was outlawed, it was not considered murder. A fetus was not considered a person by US law (part of the reason Roe v Wade passed was because they claimed they could not say when life started).

God knows us all, and knew us all before He even created the earth. While Adam and Eve walked the earth, God knew that I would be prochoice. But God knowing us does not mean that abortion is wrong. God knows which fetuses will be miscarried. God knows which fetuses will be aborted. He obviously does not plan for every single fetus to be born alive. I actually wrote a blog post about this idea (http://prochoicechristian1.blogspot.com/2010/04/god-has-plan-for-all-fetuses.html). I was not at all denying Biblical verses- I agree that God knows us before and during formation in the womb.

As for my baptism- I never said that was what saved me. Perhaps you should stop making so many assumptions.

In terms of women aborting out of love- you should perhaps try talking (politely, without judgment) to women who have had abortions. You would find that many of them loved their fetuses. There are a number of sites with stories already in the public about women who aborted and loved their fetuses: http://aheartbreakingchoice.com/personal.html http://www.45millionvoices.org/your-voices.html http://www.thanksabortion.com/ And many more.

Eugenics are not next. There is no comparison between a woman doing the right thing for herself and her family, and someone forcing sterilization or death upon a person because they are a different race, a different religion, poor, or any other reason. Euthanasia also isn’t “next”- abortion isn’t a stepping stone to anything like you seem to suggest. It’s just women taking care of themselves and their children.

I am not anti-life. I am pro-life in the truest sense of the word. That’s why I’m also prochoice. Because antichoice people do not respect the lives of women. They do not respect the lives of born children who would suffer when their mothers cannot have abortions. They do not respect the lives of fathers and mothers to make difficult decisions (see here: http://www.daddyfiles.com/2010/07/13/abort-protesters/).

Put the Christ back in Christian

I don’t understand why you only reference one Christian who is pro-choice when there are many more in the world. This article is more of a personal attack on KushieIsMoon than it is valid argument. I don’t think Jesus Christ would approve of such an act of vengeance. Of course, living in a country founded on secular ideals, it’s irrelevant what any deity would think about abortion.

KushielsMoon is my kind of

KushielsMoon is my kind of Christian. She actually pays attention to Jesus’s message. I’m actually thinking about starting a fan club for her, because when I read her writing on religion, I can almost see myself becoming a Christian again. You could learn a lot from her.

For example, the massive assumptions you make about her life and character and the judgments you pass on her based on those assumptions. It seems to me Jesus said something about judging others…

Thanks!

@wbt4 I appreciate your post and will share it with others. Thank you and praise the Lord!

Thanks for that, and for the mention on your blog. I’m going to return to your site and read more.

Thanks for the reply - perhaps you could explain a bit.

@KushielsMoon To start off, lovely that you’ve written a whole post about me.

“Pro-Choice Christian” sounds like an oxymoron, so it’s an interesting subject; I read many of your articles to get a feeling for what you meant. Twitter tends to be a bit short to have meaningful discussion on, and it’s hard for other people to follow the flow, so those topics deserve a blog post. Glad you stopped by.

@KushielsMoon I said that I do believe lifenews.

Your tweet said you didn’t believe them and wanted other sources. Perhaps you made a typo somewhere.

@KushielsMoon God knows which fetuses will be miscarried. God knows which fetuses will be aborted.

There’s a huge difference between miscarriage and aborted. One involves a person taking direct, premeditated, and deliberated action to terminate a life, the other does not.

Dying of natural causes differs from being killed during a bank robbery gone bad.

@KushielsMoon As for my baptism- I never said that was what saved me. Perhaps you should stop making so many assumptions.

You said “I’ve been Christian since I was baptized as an infant”.

If I said “I’ve been horribly sick since I ate that gallon of ice cream” you’d reasonably conclude by the construction it was the ice cream causing the sickness. Yes, it’s possible it’s something else, but the sentence strongly implies correlation.

In the infant baptism quote, that correlation is even stronger as the infant can’t do much for himself, i.e. make a proclamation of faith in Jesus Christ.

“Since” implies it’s a defining moment—before you weren’t, now you are. Thus, the reasonable conclusion it’s the baptism which caused the change.

Perhaps you could clear that up — how are you saved? What does the quote mean you are a Christian since infant baptism? What caused you to consider yourself a Christian as an infant?

@KushielsMoon In terms of women aborting out of love- you should perhaps try talking (politely, without judgment) to women who have had abortions

What evidence do you have I haven’t? You’ve made an assumption (which turns out to be incorrect).

@KushielsMoon God knew that I would be prochoice

Of course He did. But don’t assume because God knows something He approves of it, or it’s a good idea.

@KushielsMoon You would find that many of them loved their fetuses. … women who aborted and loved their fetuses

As already stated, a review of 1 Corinthians 13 might be in order. “Love” in English can mean many things, but Biblical agapao is quite different.

From your examples: One was poor. Another said her boyfriend never wanted to see her again. Another was in school. Another was near going to college … and it will take time to read the rest.

Sure, some abort due to medical reasons of the child or mother, but even the examples you cite for women loving their child before aborting them don’t match that.

So let’s be specific, barring medical issues, is aborting a baby because you’re too busy, going to college, or just don’t want a child an expression of love towards the child? What do you say? What do you think Biblical agapao love means? Are there qualifiers to your idea of abortion-is-love you didn’t previously mention which clarify it? Or is it absolute that after carefully considering alternatives, abortion always expresses love?

@KushielsMoon Euthanasia also isn’t “next”- abortion isn’t a stepping stone to anything like you seem to suggest

Once you eliminate the sanctity of human life, those are logical results.

You said “Even if we said the fetus was a person, it still wouldn’t be murder for a woman to have an abortion”. Once you allow for a person to be eliminated for any reason, euthanasia becomes legally logical because you’ve created the precedent of terminating human life for any reason—even calling it an expression of love as you did.

Compare abortion (where the fetus is declared a person) and euthanasia. Both are human people, recognized as such. What reasons are given to end the life? I’m too busy, interferes with my career, financial reasons, or medical reasons.

It’s exactly the same argument, which is why the pro-abortion group works diligently to not call an unborn child a person, to avoid such problems. You might be for abortion but not euthanasia, but the same logic justifies both (once you recognize the baby as a human person).

Euthanasia is the mercy killing of a person who will suffer. When the reasons given for abortion are the parents are poor, or can’t provide adequately, or don’t want the baby, is that not the definition of euthanasia?

@KushielsMoon I am not anti-life.

I’m not going to enter into the naming game much — pro-choice and pro-life being the normal descriptions, anti-life used the flip side to your repeated anti-choice description of pro-life.

We’ll never agree on much, but I’d like to better understand your position on two ideas mentioned in this comment to clarify your position:

  1. The infant baptism question. How are you saved?
  2. Aborting expresses love-always, or just sometimes?

Thanks for replying.

It's her unique view

@Corabella I don’t understand why you only reference one Christian who is pro-choice

You missed this: “We’ve talked to many pro-abortion people, and read lots of arguments on both sides, but honestly never found someone claiming premeditated extermination of an innocent person isn’t murder, and a mother expresses love for her child by aborting it.”

Besides that, she tweeted me first about something, so a quick check of her positions was reasonable. Searching for pro-choice Christians her site was in the top 5 (at the time); other sites repeated the well-worn argument the baby isn’t a person, blah, blah, blah. Same old discussion.

It’s not the pro-choice position making her opinion interesting, it’s her “abortion isn’t murder even if the baby is recognized as a person” which differs from others. If I find others with that view, their justification for it would be useful as well.

The question is… how mainstream is this view in the pro-abort camp?

@Corabella Of course, living in a country founded on secular ideals

If you mean the United States wasn’t founded on Christian principles, you’re quite wrong, but that’s a bit off-topic here. I’ve written about it before and the discussion would be more appropriate there, if you’re interested. Or perhaps you don’t live in the US, or maybe you’re an atheist so the issue doesn’t matter to you?

What is the Gospel?

@InsaneArtGurl …pays attention to Jesus’s message

What message is that? What is the gospel to you?

@InsaneArtGurl I can almost see myself becoming a Christian again.

Good idea. Are you currently an atheist then? Or some other non-Christian faith?

@InsaneArtGurl …the massive assumptions you make about her life and character and the judgments you pass on her based on those assumptions. @Corabella This article is more of a personal attack on KushieIsMoon than it is valid argument. I don’t think Jesus Christ would approve of such an act of vengeance

I read many of her articles (note the quotes come from several places), and if you notice, I’ve asked her for clarification of her position. I never called her names or said she’s a horrible person, but will disagree with her (as she has with me); if disagreeing with a position you call judgmental and vengeful that’s a pretty broad brush — how are we ever to engage in debate and exchange thoughts if we can’t disagree?

Seriously?

There are many things about this post with which I take issue. I won’t touch on all of them, but here’s a start:

it is possible to be Christian and pro-choice. The idea that you would put “Christian” in quotations when also saying “abortion supporters” is offensive. My salvation is not based on my pro-choice beliefs or on ANY of my actions.

To also put to question Kushielsmoon’s salvation because she hasn’t met YOUR criteria of a how/when a Christian should be saved is completely arrogant. Christianity is not a formula. You and I are on completely different ends of the spectrum, but I’m not questioning your salvation. That’s not my job.

Pro-choice means exactly what it says: I support CHOICE. If a woman becomes pregnant and keeps the baby, I support that. If the woman has an abortion, I support her there, too. Our job is not to point fingers and cast stones and hurl insults and quote Bible verses to “prove” that she’s murdering her unborn child. Our job is to love. To have compassion for a woman who has made a choice.

LOVE is more powerful than hate. Compassion and forgiveness are more powerful than condemnation.

I’m going to have to learn

I’m going to have to learn how to do that indenting at some point…

I meant to say “I said that I do not believe lifenews.” My apologies for forgetting a word there.

Spontaneous abortion (miscarriage) and medical abortions are different. But that doesn’t mean that one has to be acceptable and one has to be unacceptable. My mentioning of miscarriage was more to note that not every fetus is intended for life birth- by God’s set up of the world. We cannot say that we are 100% sure that God wants the fetuses which women are aborting to be born. Perhaps His plan includes those fetuses being aborted.

(By the way, did you intentionally pass over the bit about abortion not being murder when it was illegal before 1973?)

As for my Christianity, I do believe there is a difference between adults and children. Children may be called Christian to denote an upbringing, not that they’ve dedicated their lives to following Christ. I was raised as a Christian, ie I was taught about the Bible and Jesus as a child. Once a person is able to understand the faith behind believing in God and choosing to ask for forgiveness and acceptance by Christ (accepting Christ as their Savior), then they can be saved. This doesn’t happen at a specific age, but at a level of maturity which is different for each individual.

I did make an assumption about your communications with women who have had abortions. I like to think that anyone who actually listens to women who have aborted wouldn’t call abortion murder, because they would find compassion.

I read through 1 Corinthians 13 and see nothing there to suggest that women who abort couldn’t love their fetuses. I am not saying every single person aborts out of love. I am sure there are some people out there who abuse their bodies, abuse their access to medical help, and don’t take care of themselves. But I doubt very many women abort because they hate their fetus, or think it’s out to get them.

I thought about quoting specific stories from those websites; lines where women straight out said that they loved the fetus they aborted. But perhaps it would be better for you to just read through the stories.

Having an abortion when you want a child, but knowing that you wouldn’t be able to care for the child if you had one now- I’d call that more selfless than selfish. Having an abortion to make sure that you can feed the three children you already have- I’d say that’s love. A woman who aborts because she does not want to make a child suffer- that’s love.

Abortion doesn’t eliminate the sanctity of human life. On the contrary, it reminds us of the sanctity of life- the woman’s life, her husband’s life, her childrens’ lives. Antichoicers so often forget that there is more than just the fetus, there is a woman and her family involved in this as well.

I never suggested that “a person [could] be eliminated for any reason.” There would be specific, lawful and logical reasons why women could still have abortions even fetuses were considered people. Usually, patients who are considered for euthanasia aren’t inside a person’s body. Hopefully. You are mixing up the legal reasoning why women could have abortions, and the personal reasons they choose to have abortions. Personal reasons for abortion don’t make an argument for euthanasia, like you’ve suggested.

Thanks for being polite and reasonable in your response.

"Love," "Christianity," and Abortion

@Bri and @KushielsMoon – What does “Christian” really mean then? We are using the same word with at least two different meanings, I think. You appear to be using “Christian” to refer to something similar to a nationality or way you were “brought up” or set of principles. True Christianity certainly contains a set of principles, but the principles without salvation and entry of the Holy Spirit are merely outward and not inward. I believe @yeager is trying to distinguish between a title and the true act of salvation through belief in Jesus Christ and receiving the Holy Spirit. I think we’ll all agree here. But the important part is what’s next: he’s also rightly assuming that upon receiving that salvation we, as true Christians who have not strayed, would continue to work toward being of “like-mind” with God and search out His truths (John 17:20-26, Phil 2:1-2, others). Doers, not just hearers (James 1:22-25). Anyone can hear…those abandoned to Christ live what they hear. This is where we start to diverge because the Bible, when taken in its entirety, clearly convicts abortion as sin, even more convincingly when you acknowledge a pre-born baby as a human already. Hold up, we’ve all sinned and strayed, though…yes, but there is a difference in sin and a lifestyle of sin. And a greater difference still in a bad choice and choosing to lead others to that choice, purposefully and blatantly rejecting God’s Word. Even still, there is no judgment from me—God alone sits on the judgment seat and we will be judged at the conclusion of our lives. If we were judged at our worst moment, when we were most separated from God through sin, then we’d all go to Hell. Fortunately, by God’s grace, love, and mercy alone, everyone still living that has yet to accept Christ—they are still alive and can be immediately be forgiven upon one decision. This is a key difference between judgment and discernment. We are called to discern, certainly, but not called to judge. Matt 10:16 – “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.” In Matt 7:1-6, Jesus calls us to discern “dogs” and “swine,” yet “not judge, lest you be judged.” Therefore, there is a difference in discernment and judgment. My goal here is discernment, and I believe @yeager’s is as well. This is the heart of the use of the word “Christian” in quotations, to acknowledge that just because we say we’re something doesn’t mean we are. “I’m a millionare!” Actually, no, I’m not. The Bible even says “not everyone who says, Lord, Lord, will enter the kingdom of Heaven.” (Matt 7:21) He instead says to “build our house upon the rock,” as a direct analogy of those who keep his commandments. (Matt 7:24-27, Luke 7:47-49). Before I offend anyone, I am not calling you “dogs” and “swine,” for I would hate to be the following: “You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” (Luke 7:42)

As for self-sacrificial love: So self-sacrificing that we sacrifice the baby? Where did our faith in God go? Since when was it noble to kill one man so another could eat? Did Jesus not feed the 5000 from just 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish? Furthermore, let’s play “devil’s advocate” and for argument’s sake, take your point of view: That the baby was spared a terrible life by being aborted instead of born into a family that could not provide. You mentioned a lack of food, distraction such as school, etc. So what about the baby born to a mother who is well off, with say, 3 children? Then suddenly her income is cut…and she’s also going back to school…and the baby has AIDS…and is deformed…and mentally disabled…and any other slight you can pile on to a single human being? This child, maybe he/she is 1 day old…can you kill it in love and it not be murder? Yes? Hmmm…ok, still playing devil’s advocate…what if the child was 1 year old? What if 12? What about 18? How about 40? How about 65? (now we’re moving to the other end, senior citizens). If the question is quality of life, I can tell you that there are people of every single age in this world that have it as bad off or worse than that child born into the struggling, disease ridden family, that you claim justifies the abortion. Would it be loving to kill them? If so, then what law would stop it, since all we need is to say we’re doing it in love? And God knows our hearts, regardless of human laws, so if we can love a fetus by killing it, then what person is off limits if our love is so rash, short sighted, and faithless, as to want to kill them to do what we in our infinite wisdom deem as best? (sorry, that was sarcastic) So where is the limit? Is it strictly because it’s a “helpless baby?” Well, that’s true for at least a couple years after birth. Or is it because the baby is unborn? Then something distinguishes between a born and unborn human? When we start distinguishing between humans because of something they cannot control…then we can justify anything, including genocide. Or is it because the life is so intertwined with the mother that the mother has a greater right to choose. The baby cannot choose, but the mom can, so she gets to choose? How about the 1 year old which cannot choose? There is no difference. So how do you actually define the line? This is a true question, and not rhetorical because I’m sure I’ve left out at least one conceivable scenario, and since you’ve obviously thought about this a little bit, I’d like to consider the possibilities that you have considered.

I find the following two consecutive paragraphs terribly contradictory: “Having an abortion when you want a child, but knowing that you wouldn’t be able to care for the child if you had one now- I’d call that more selfless than selfish. Having an abortion to make sure that you can feed the three children you already have- I’d say that’s love. A woman who aborts because she does not want to make a child suffer- that’s love.” “Abortion doesn’t eliminate the sanctity of human life. On the contrary, it reminds us of the sanctity of life- the woman’s life, her husband’s life, her childrens’ lives. Antichoicers so often forget that there is more than just the fetus, there is a woman and her family involved in this as well.”

Love is not self-seeking (1 Cor 13:5). So the argument that “there is more than just the fetus, there is a woman…involved in this as well” is selfish of the woman and not derived from love of her baby. If she did it out of true sacrificial love, then you could say simply “there is more than just the fetus, there is the rest of her family involved as well.” Then that could still be defined as a type of love, given that it is all selfless. The woman considering herself in the slightest makes it no longer purely love. We’re all convicted here, as I know if we’re honest, we do selfish things every day. But we’re talking about the pursuit of true love and trying to indicate that aborting a baby is in love? Then the second quoted paragraph above takes away from that point. Which is it? Is the mother to be considered, or did she do it out of love? If it’s out of love, then the aforementioned argument about where to draw the line is very valid. If it is out of consideration of the mother, then it is not selfless and does not fit the Biblical definition of true love…so love has nothing to do with it, as it is mother looking after herself at expense of another.

Of course, if we decide that a pre-born baby is not a human at all, then that is an entirely different conversation. The above arguments are for those that rightly consider a pre-born baby to be human, but have failed to search out the scriptures with an open heart and discern the Holy Spirit and instead consider killing a human baby “Christian.” The relationship with God through the Holy Spirit and salvation of Jesus Christ is what we mean by “real Christian.” We’ll all get it wrong for a time, but we must love God in a way that we continue to search out his truths. If we can agree to that, in all honesty that we only know inside ourselves, then we may be moving in the same direction. I hope these posts from all parties help us each to do that–I really and truly and passionately mean that.

I didn't question her salvation, but theology

@Bri To also put to question Kushielsmoon’s salvation

I didn’t question her salvation. Theology, yes.

Thanks for clarifying

@KushielsMoon Spontaneous abortion (miscarriage) and medical abortions are different. But that doesn’t mean that one has to be acceptable and one has to be unacceptable.

That’s true, but then it’s also true they require separate justifications.

@KushielsMoon By the way, did you intentionally pass over the bit about abortion not being murder when it was illegal before 1973?

Yep. I said it was logical to be murder. I’ve never researched the law pre Roe v Wade because it doesn’t really matter except in historical context. What the charge really was I don’t know.

@KushielsMoon Children may be called Christian to denote an upbringing… Once a person is able to understand the faith behind believing in God and choosing to ask for forgiveness and acceptance by Christ (accepting Christ as their Savior), then they can be saved.

Perfect.

@KushielsMoon Having an abortion to make sure that you can feed the three children you already have- I’d say that’s love. A woman who aborts because she does not want to make a child suffer- that’s love.

And that’s where we’ll disagree. There’s other options, and it’s a fact some abortions are performed because a baby is inconvenient, or bad for the career, or the boyfriend doesn’t want it, or…

That’s selfish and self-centered, no matter how difficult they thought the decision was. No way could that be love, and the 1 Corinthians 13 reference is to understand agape. Love is a commitment, not an emotion, involving, well, commitment. Love is patient, kind, doesn’t seek it’s own, bears all things, never fails.

Having an abortion because a child is inconvenient at the time or not good for career advancement can’t fit that description of love.

@KushielsMoon I’m going to have to learn how to do that indenting at some point

This blog uses Markdown syntax. It’s quite easy (similar to what you’d do in an email) and easily formats to HTML and PDF and LaTeX (lay-tech) formats for other uses. If you want more info, let me know, though I don’t know if blogger supports it.

@KushielsMoon You are mixing up the legal reasoning why women could have abortions, and the personal reasons they choose to have abortions.

Unfortunately, once a legal reason opens, it makes it available to anyone for any reason. You might not want an abortion for those reasons, but it would be legally justified. That’s the problem.

@KushielsMoon Thanks for being polite and reasonable in your response.

It’s sad you had to mention this. Why can’t people disagree? We’re on waaaaay different sides to be sure.

I think this last comment clarified your position well. We won’t agree to be sure, but I understand where you’re coming from.

If you believe Jesus Christ is God, came to the earth, died on the cross for our sin, rose on the third day, and by his sacrifice we are saved as no other name exists under heaven where by we must be saved, then dividing fellowship on other points is absurd, and splitting churches over pretrib/post-trib, Bible translations, predestination/free-will, etc is quite sad.

I’ll avoid a long rant on the issue, but I wrote a book on “The Troubled Church” — using Corinth as an example. Sadly, we haven’t learned over 2,000 years as division and such still exist. The book is on Amazon, and MP3’s of the messages are available for free download.

That’s not to say doctrine and issues aren’t important and don’t have right and wrong answers (I think your theology is quite incorrect), but the important issue is salvation. If someone gets that right they’re on the right path. If not, nothing else matters.

Judgment vs discernment

@wbt4 difference between judgment and discernment

I think I’ll put this on my “to-do” list of articles. It’s common to quote the “don’t judge me” part as if any disagreement becomes judgmental (or as someone said, vengeful). Yet the Bible (and Jesus) did judge between right and wrong, so it’s not disallowed; Paul spent several letters to Corinth discussing right and wrong. I think this issue deserves an article of it’s own.

The discussion surrounding agape really defines the abortion debate, as you also noted, and I’ve said previously. It’s hard to fit agape into an abortion for convenience, or hurts career advancement or something like that. It’s trying to fit a square peg in a round hole — it just doesn’t fit; abortion for convenience violates Biblical agapao.

If the mothers life is in danger, it’s unlikely any Christian would deny someone a legitimate need to terminate, although that moves into a much more difficult situation. And if the baby might have serious medical issues, to abort or not becomes much more difficult, and even grayer; it’s possible to see how someone could call that a loving choice (of course, those cases are normally excluded from the make abortion illegal side).

If you haven’t faced the situation of a baby with medial problems, a drug-addicted child, a person in a coma and deciding to unplug the ventilator, or any of a thousand similar situations, you have no idea how difficult and gut-wrenching it can be.

One of my favorite quotes from Yogi Berra — “in theory there’s no difference between theory and practice, in practice there is”. In other words, it’s easy to discuss academics, but when the rubber meets the road, will the academics work?

Many of these issues we’re cursed with (like pulling the plug) come from medial advances. In the not-to-distant past, these issues didn’t pop up, simply because we didn’t have advanced medicine which yields information. Our technology has both blessed us with saving lives, and cursed us with information we didn’t use to have, which requires us to then “play god” with situations we really aren’t equipped for. It’s best to leave it to God, but sometimes we’re forced to make a decision.